have u ever felt like u and ur partner might not be sexually compatible
My bf and I have been together for 4 years. Before we got together we’d both interact sexually with other people (via cam, text, etc), but neither of us ever did anything in person until we met each other. We have also shared nudes with a third person together, this was a one time thing tho. However, he doesn’t seem to be interested in the idea of threesomes at all, every time i bring up the idea he changes the subject immediately. He’s said before that he wouldn’t want to do it with a stranger because he’s worried about stds, and i guess that makes sense but to me it’s frustrating sometimes because i feel like i didn’t get to explore my sexuality at all before i met him and neither did he so i thought it would be fun to experience it together. I feel so conflicted about this because i do love him and i do want to be with him, but i also want to explore my sexuality. I don’t want this to be a situation in which i have to choose what’s more important for me, because i feel like a relationship where sexual needs/wants aren’t even open for discussion might not be the right one.