Posture issues mainly bc I dont want my boobs to stick out
I have an inverted triangle body type so I have broad shoulders but 30G/30GG(according to abrathatfits measurements)
It started when I was in highschool and was developing boobies, it never went away that Im always hunched bc standing straight emphasizes the boobs. I try to fix my posture once in a while but gets discouraged when I catch people, both men and women fixating their gaze on my chest. Or when they do a double take on the boobies.
These affected how I dress growing up, experimenting with clothes have stopped bc the priority was hiding the nonideal proportions. All throughout high school I mostly wore crew neck shirts and loose fitting clothes. When I was 16, someone mistook me as an older sister to my brother who was 11 years older than me, primarily bc how I dress aged me.
I tried ever since to just embrace the bigger boobies but have still struggled when I catch people looking at it so my mood plummets even if I genuinely liked what I was wearing. When I'm wearing boxy things I like that I dont attract unsolicited attention and advice but feel sad bc I dont like how I look.
loose clothes makes me look boxy but ideal for the hot weather and masking the boobies
tight tops emphasizes my shape but makes me look slutty
v necks and scoop necks show cleavage but it looks good
wide leg bottoms are flattering but def heavier
tight bottoms are good for seeing movement when exercising or dancing but magnifies the top heaviness
but the constant thing is I hunch my back bc I feel like it will make them stare less. And generally tight clothing and low cut necklines are seen as immodest, revealing and provocative.
I know that structured vneck/scoopneck/sweetheart/venus tops paired with wide leg bottoms/flowy skirts is the most flattering combination.
Im just struggling with the inverted triangle body shape and big chested double whammy. There's not a lot of representation in media too 😞
oh and strapless tops and dresses are too hard to navigate. boobtapes are never as supportive and cant use strapless bra if its also lowback, if braless its saggy. can never win!
too long to discuss how we are taken less seriously bc the boobies are too damn distracting.