u/Curiousabteverything

I 48F matched with 42M on an app. Convo is flowing well, so we move to texts. Again good conversation and getting to know each other, we both have a busy schedule so unable to meet quickly. He lets me know he’s going on a golf trip to Utah with his buddies last week and into this week. Cool, have fun. We are texting and I said “send pics, I bet it’s beautiful” he sends screen shots, which is kinda weird but ok. Then his location in the app moves only 7 miles, (I was showing his profile to a friend) and then moves back to 3 miles where it normally has been. Again odd!? But he’s communicating a lot for someone who is out with his bros. And then he send a picture last night and the location isn’t in Utah it’s where he lives.

This morning he said he had an urgent client meeting and he flew back early.

I don’t get it, why lie about any of this?? I don’t even know how to process it.

He isn’t married, his socials show him as single and he isn’t catfishing. I do my homework obviously.

Do I confront him? Move on? Don’t care? lol

TLDR: Man I matched with is lying about being on a golf trip when he’s actually still in our city.

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u/Curiousabteverything — 16 days ago