u/Curious_Femboy1108

I need help…

I am a Femboy myself and I really enjoy it but sometimes it feels like „I am not good enough to be a Femboy“ or „I am not pretty enough to be a Femboy“. I know Femboys come in every shape and age but it feels like it’s not true and I am pretty sure that the „Typical Femboy Stereotypes“ caused those feeling. I am 27 and i would say I don’t fit in this box and my genetics aren’t the best to be fem if I‘m honest. Nowadays it just feels like „you need to fit in this specific box to be a Femboy“. I hate it that being a Femboy got limited by stupid stereotypes and people see those stereotypes and make claims like „those are REAL Femboys“. Did anyone got the same feeling? How did you deal with the need to fit in those „high expectations“? Do you think stereotypes are BS and shouldn’t determine what a Femboy is? I would love to hear your answers. English is not my first language, I am sorry if there are some mistakes.