Ive been making pretty good progress lately after 6 months of efforts, where i can pretty consistently get my partner inside but only in 2 angles: missionary and doggy. And doggy is a lot more comfortable and actually pleasurable.
As for any other sex positions, it’s like i can’t find the hole at all! i especially have been wanting to try me-on-top positions, but they are so much more uncomfortable, and if i do find the hole, it feels way more shallow.
Ive tried repositioning myself, sitting directly on top, facing forwards/backwards, etc, but it usually gets so frustrating that i just stop and we go back to doggy. Unfortunately doggy ends up being really strenuous for my partner because of his knees needing to bend for our big height difference. So I don’t want to only be able to do that one.
Are there any tricks to quickly finding the hole? And any tricks to doing different positions for those with vagnismus/general penetration discomfort, especially on-top ones?