I (22) got my first bf (22) like one or two weeks ago. We surely liked each other, he said he 'liked' me on the first glance due to my appearance and decided to ask me out one a date because of my calm personality.
I am a very sole, subtle and calm person, yes, i am not offended about that. But the problem is he is going too fast and not respecting my boundaries. He often talks about our future (like marrying, having kids, living faraway from the cities when we get old and introducing me to his family and friends...) to me.
And he compliments me about my looks like constantly? (like 10 or more times a day) Appreciated but not happy about that all the time honestly. So I talked about this-to stop compliment about my appearance that much, It is not respectful-but he said he's '서운하다‘ (like sad and feels like not being appreciated enough)... So like I cannot have a saying to that matter now.
And he talks about he's '서운하다’ about me not liking him enough like he does. I admit but I think he is the one going too fast. This is our first relationship to both of us, I feel very scared about physical intimacies... (I am a virgin and i never kissed anybody, i know i am a bit nerdy but it is not really uncommon thing for north east asians)
I dunno. I really liked him, he felt very subtle and gentle, minds his own business kind of guy before we started 'dating' but after that, everything feels like it is going downside.
please, any advices? should i ditch him off or just get through this awkward stage of a relationship?