My ex broke up with me in November. We own a home together. Immediately after the break up, I was the driving force behind us separating our possessions and moving into our own rooms. They would make comments like, “you move so fast.” I was ready to sell our house in February, but they claimed they wanted to keep it. By March, they said they were “open to the idea of selling.” I called a realtor who came to visit and gave us a list of tasks to up the value and sell. My ex has done very little to prepare in any transition.
I’ve told them I need more effort. I’ve expressed that continuing to co-habitate is not good for my mental health. They still do nothing.
I don’t understand it at all. YOU broke up with me. I’m ready to grieve and move on. It’s not the outcome that I wanted, but this is horrific. It’s like a slow car crash. Why aren’t they motivated? Where is the urgency?
Like, do you want to just keep having conflict with me? You are an adult. You don’t have to live like this. I am so confused and disappointed.