[r/AmItheAsshole] my wife considered me dead during the blip and remarried her best friend. AITA for calling her a horrible person and a cheater?
so, I (38M, would be 43 if it weren't for the dick in purple) was blipped. yes, it's a common experience, about half of us were. so, when I came back around three years ago, I found my name carved on some huge stone wall among with countless others, like I was dead. apparently there was a way to bring us back, then why were considered dead?? why the hell did it take "earth's mightiest heroes" FIVE YEARS?! anyway, as the title says, my wife also considered me dead. before the blip I always suspected that she and her guy best friend were too close, like, more than just friends. she'd always tell me I'm being paranoid and insecure, eventually I believed her and let it go. but apparently as soon as I was gone (like two years later), she was thrilled to jump into his arms! I lost five years of my children's (15M and 17M) lives. now her best friend, her new husband lives in my house with my kids and married to my wife. he took my entire life! obviously I tried to get him away from her and my children. I was being very reasonable about it, actually. but then suddenly I can't see my children or my wife or that douchebag. a restraining order! for what??? asking that thief for my life back?? as I was packing my thing from the damn basement they "let" me stay in (yet again, in my house), I said that to her. "you're a horrible person, you cheated on me, and I bet you were with this dickbag even back then!" so, then, when I actually called her out on it, she started bawling her eyes out. I almost thought she'd had a change of heart but then they called the police to legally get me away. now my children say I'm the horrible person. I really don't understand what I did wrong, but people are calling me the asshole, so- AITA???