u/CuckCake321

For any man who has spent some time in the dating landscape. I am sure you have seen that women will say one thing but do another. Being that women's actions very rarely match their words. And this is especially true for being nice. You'll see the word "Nice Guy" being thrown around whenever the topic of being nice to women comes up. "Oh the reason being nice to women didn't work is because you expect to get something in return for being nice!"

Of course I do. Life isn't a charity. Tell me do you go to work everyday expecting nothing in return? No of course not. And even if it's a friendship instead. I am nice to my friends because I expect them to be nice back to me. If they are not I will stop being friends with them. So let's not pretend that we all just do things for the sake of doing them. Everything in life is inherently transactional. And we all expect something in return.

So now that it's been established that everything in life is transactional. Even being nice to someone is. The second point I want to make is being nice will never trump being attractive in women's eyes. Which is exactly why being nice to women is a waste of time because it doesn't give you an advantage over Chads in the dating market. Trust and believe if being nice to women got men the same treatment Jeremy Meeks does for being hot we would see a complete change in the dating market overnight.

Except it doesn't. We have seen time and time again women's willingness to put up with abusive and violent men because they are attractive. Like how many times have you heard this one. "Oh he was such a nice guy! I just wasn't attracted to him." If being nice to women was as important as they say it is this statement wouldn't exist. Women will stay with an abusive but attractive man for YEARS while the nice but not as attractive man is lucky if he gets a few months.

So to conclude as a man you need to do what works. And being nice to women doesn't work. So you are better off using your time to become as attractive as possible. This will have way more return on investment then being nice ever will.

Despite what Women, Normies and Reddit likes to say about the BlackPill it's been growing at an exponential rate. And I think this is happening for a few reasons. For one the Pandemic greatly increased your average man's exposure to the BlackPill. When everyone was in lockdown dating apps became the only way to safely meet people for a good year. Most normie men really had no idea how bad the Dating Market had become until they were forced to use dating apps because of COVID.

Secondly Gen Z men are reaching the apex of finding a partner. Yes people find partners at all ages. But it is significantly harder trying to find a partner at 50 then it is when you're 15. All those Normie BluePilled Gen Z men who said "oh I'm only 18. I have plenty of time." Now they are 25 and 5 years away from 30 with no prospects in sight. The copes can only last so long before even the most bluepilled men begin to see the truth.

And lastly the recent rise of Looksmaxxers like King 68 and Clavicular has really shown the complete disparity between how women treat men they're attracted to vs men they are not. All the BluePill movies and TV shows that taught men to approach a woman first are crumbling right before their eyes as men like Clavicular and King68 have women making the first move. Men are starting to realize now if a woman really likes you she will do whatever it takes to get your attention.

As for the future of what a world filled with BlackPilled men will look like I can't say for sure. But Roe V Wade being overturned and Donald Trump getting elected twice are just the beginning. Because it looks like not only are men checking out of the dating market. They are also heading over to the voting booths and voting for things that solely benefit them.

This post is for those of you lucky few who have managed to ascend and escape "Inceldom". You may lurk here from time to time. You may even start to doubt the BlackPill entirely. But I implore you not too. I make this as a warning/friendly reminder you can always go back.

You see for a lot of men with limited experience with women, they are probably feeling emotions they have never felt before. Seeing things they thought they would never see and doing things they thought they would never do now that they are finally in a relationship. Life seems a little lighter. A little easier even. But this is just an illusion. Nothing has changed.

As a man your value is still significantly less than a woman's. And I don't say this as an insult but as a fact of our current society. You may think things are equal in your relationship but they are not. You can be replaced at any time. "But CuckCake321anyone can be replaced. That's just the risk of dating." Make a dating profile for yourself and one for your girlfriend and see who can replace who faster. We all know the answer.

Like I said I am not making this post to be negative but on the contrary as a reminder for you not to forget where you came from. There is a reason it took you this long to get into a relationship in the first place. So many men in this sub who get a girlfriend think they cracked some sort of secret code when they finally ascend.They think the BlackPill isn't real because they got lucky.

And that's just it you got lucky. But the thing about luck is it can run out. And if you aren't prepared you can actually be worse off after a relationship then never being in one to begin with. So as a rule of thumb to remember when dating. As long as Dating Apps exist you can always go back. As long as SmartPhones exist you can always go back. And as long as the Internet is up and running you can always go back.

Keep one foot in the door and another out when in a relationship as a BlackPilled Man. Know that unless you bring significant looks, wealth, fame or all three you're always in danger of going back to being an Incel. And lastly and most importantly don't be a free agent in life.

One of the biggest misconceptions that women and normies make about the BlackPill is that it is responsible for creating Incels. That it's this big scary secret organization with underground conversion centers all over the world turning sweet little Timmy's into angry raging incels. When this couldn't be further from the truth.

First and foremost the BlackPill isn't an organization. It's a way of understanding the realities of society, life and being human. Stripping away the facade and getting to the harsh truth. To be BlackPilled is to accept the inconvenient truths of life no matter how brutal. So the BlackPill is really a Philosophy not an Organization. Which is why whenever people try to silence BlackPill Groups another takes its place because it isn't an Organization with a Leader you can take away and make the whole thing collapse.

So now that it's been established The BlackPill isn't an organization that goes out and recruits people but rather a Philosophy. How does one get BlackPilled to begin with? Well like most BlackPillers I always knew of the BlackPills existence without knowing it had a name. I knew about core BP Philosophies like women having inherently more value than men. And dating being significantly harder for average and ugly men, looks playing a significantly more important role in dating than personality etc.

And this was before the BP was mainstream like it is now and I also knew this at a young age. So then what's the common dominator here if I knew about all this without some dark shadowy figure poisoning my innocent mind with BP truths like normies would like to believe? Well it's women of course.

I learned about the BP through women. I had no idea that personality mattered so little in dating until I saw women going out with men who were known misogynists, bullies and over all terrible people. I didn't know dating was so hard for men until I saw women of equal looks level to men literally have zero problem getting dates, relationships etc while men in their same league got nothing.

And this is my point the BlackPill exists because of women not because of some mysterious organization recruiting young men. Every time a man makes a dating profile and gets zero matches or a man gets rejected for the ten thousandth time that's a new member to the club no one wants to be apart of. So as long as womens ever increasingly unrealistic standards exists so will the BlackPill.