u/Cryptids-and-Coffee

I (M31) have started seeing someone new (M35) after 6 years of me not finding anyone I really liked after a major heartbreak.

My new guy is fantastic. We have been together for 6 months. He makes me feel safe and I love spending time with him, but it’s not the same kind of Earth moving love as my ex.

Can my love for this new guy become something more with time? Or am I just trying to force a wrong fit?