I'm not sure if most people are like that, but I see it a lot with my family and friends of our family.
Example:
I had a bad interaction with an acquaintance of my mom.
She asked me about something and then started to scold or belittle me, like a child and didn't let me talk.
She told me to tell my mom to call her, about the topic she talked about, thinking she knows better than me.
My mom talked to her about this and she later said to me
"Yes, I love her deeply, but she and her husband think they are better than everyone else.
So, I thought to myself, why would you "love" someone, when they have such an awful personality trait, which hurts people?
Can anyone relate or explain maybe?
I feel like awful, but I would never want to be friends with such a person.