u/Cruise-newbie-1987

We fence sat for years, decided to start trying last year. Found out at the end of Feb I was pregnant. Had 2 private scan, the last one only 5 days before my NHS 12 week one. At the 12 week scan we found out the baby is unsurvivable. We are heartbroken. I'm due the hospital Wednesday for surgery. We're now petrified of getting pregnant again as this journey has been devasting. Has anyone been in a similar position? How do you move forward. For context, I'm 35 (F), Husband 40 (M). Thank you.