Mom acts like a bratty child
When my mother has a bowel movement and wipes herself, she does this weird folding thing with the paper. It involves folding and tearing off a portion of the paper then using it again. So my daughter and I have been telling her to just throw the paper in the toilet because she’s getting feces on her hands but she argues with us. I had a big blowout with her today over it. Just to be bratty, she started wiping her hair with her dirty hands. Yup. She put poop in her hair. She’s 86 and I left a job, my older teenage daughter, and a life to come help her out. I’m 54 and it’s been a really hard to start over. She will definitely be going into a home within the next year. I raised my kids and this should be my time in life. I would be more willing if my mother didn’t have such a toxic personality.