IDL how some men think women proposing to men is shameful
It saddens me how even in this day and age we haven't gotten past these stupid gender roles. Some men think it's the man's exclusive job and right to propose. Which is utter BS. Whoever wants to propose their partner they can. If a woman is ready to get married then she can propose to her boyfriend. There's nothing shameful about it for either of them. Getting proposed to doesn't make you any less of a man.
When some men make it seem as a disgrace for a man to get proposed to, it discourages other women who want to propose to their partners, and in turn leads the men, who would like to get proposed, to think less of themselves, that they're not valuable enough to get proposed for marriage.
I think the men who think it's shameful for a man to get proposed are insecure of themselves because they know that no on will ever love them enough to want to marry them.