Hii!! So I came out sort of recently and the first person I was very attracted to was a cis woman. Shes lesbian and has masc style/energy, but can also be feminine. Since then, I’ve been attracted to feminine and androgynous women alike. Up until this point, I considered myself lesbian.
For a bit more background, I’m in my mid 20s and until my attraction to that first girl, I thought I was straight and maybe bi-curious and was actually with a cis man. But since coming out have had absolutely no interest in cis men and have been feeling more clarity on many of my past experiences/feelings towards men(or lack thereof).
Now I am very attracted to a nonbinary, trans masc person. They have top surgery and are on T. They have both masc and femme qualities.
I know labels are fluid, but it is important to me to find something that resonates with me. I have been going with lesbian/queer and that’s what I have listed on my dating profile as well.
I know I have a long ways to go given how recently I came out, but based on where I’m at right now, I would love some opinions!
Any thoughts or advice are welcome:)