I hate my sister's bf
I hate my sisters bf
I (18f) HATE my twin sisters boyfriend. Hes so weird. We've gone to school together all our life and he used to make jokes about supporting Hitler & burning schools etc. Now while I get he was "joking" it was never funny and we all used to COLLECTIVELY dislike him. He was also lowkey a bully and there were so many rumors about his friend group being borderline pedophiles & creeps.
He has had a crush on her for years but only just admitted it to her like early last year. My sister, being her "empathetic" self, messaged him. Now he had all the opportunity to make his move and she fell for it. She was so scared to tell me or ANYONE because she KNOWS how I feel about it which SPEAKS FOR ITSELF.
Now they've been together for 6 months. I hate it. But I can't freaking do anything! She literally said fuck u to my advice and pleading to not be with him and went ahead w it anyways. "Hes changed!" She says, as he continues to beeline whenever he sees me and has not once acknowledged me, our friends, or our literal mother when hes with her. So freaking weird and rude. And every time I say anything she cries or gets mad. Like oh my god. You know your bf is evil thats why you get so freaking scared.
Theres more context but im writing this in a rush. Just needed to vent. I feel so pissed and its honestly changing how I view her. Can anyone offer me advice? In general I choose not to be involved in it & never ask or let her tell me things aboht it but theres days where it really gets to me that she kinda just chose him over her friends and other relationships. I feel like nothing i says matters but shes just so desperate to defend him and pretend hes perfect. Like obv hes nice to YOU he likes u. Doesn't make him a good person or a changed person.