u/Critical-Context9952

So last night, my family went bowling for mother's day. My first game was great and I ended up winning. Towards the end, I started slipping but was still trying to win. Well, my wife started talking to me and I was looking at her and listening, but my brother's gf was winning the game so when she went to bowl, I looked away to see how many pins got knocked over. I was still listening to my wife, i was responding to her. My ears were all hers. But she is livid with me because supposedly i guess that means im interested in my brothers gf. Im not. Just wanted to not lose the game. Keep in mind that her first marriage was full of infidelity, which leads to arguments of these types of situations frequently. So am i really the ah?