u/Critical-Budget7277

Honestly not sure if I'm in the right place but I am currently pregnant, 6 weeks only. My husband has not reacted well which caught me by surprise because we were trying for a couple of months and he never expressed he didn't want to do this. We're pretty young and he said he didn't think this through and now that it's happening has he doesn't want it. His reasonings are valid and make sense such as him being so early in his career, not making as much money as he'd prefer, and missing out on their early lives/ not being able to support me as well as he'd like. I assumed we'd figure it out and our daughter is 5 so I didn't want them to have such a big gap in age. He's got a 2nd interview at a company and the typical day looks like 7-5pm 6 days a week. I know its gonna be hard and I'll have to pick up the responsibilities at home/with the kids. I think a lot of women understand how difficult it is for him to tell me let's do this then to ask me to get rid of it and "we'll try again later" when I hoped this would happen. The first time around was hard and I didn't have friends. I still don't but maybe I'll be able to figure it out? See family as much as I can? I just know he's kind if right but I want to know who this person will be, you know? Maybe this will bite me in the ass regardless of what I do. I just feel lost.