So I work at a smallish company we do military contracting as well as dealing with normal commercial sales. I've been having an HR lady making my life a nightmare.
Recently I had a woman outside of work who is a coworker say transphobic stuff on the premises but after hours. Bringing up how she supports trans people being arrested for using public restrooms. Explaining how she supports it because she was SA'd as a kid(heavily implying trans people are rapists).
The HR woman punished both of us making both of us sign a paper to "be careful discussing sensitive topics".(this was AFTER hours)
I also had a man say very gross blatantly sexual harassment type stuff. Referencing body parts and bringing up sexuality.
She claimed he was in trouble for "discussing sensitive topics at work" not sexual harassment.
She also told me "gender identity is a sexuality and brought out a legal textbook, getting rude with me saying that it says 'sexual orentation & gender identity' meanting gender identity falls under sexual orientation" and aggressively "corrected me"