u/CressAccomplished575

Ive been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, were long distance but only 3 hours away from each other. i recently went out with my girl friends to a little hometown club and then a bar after just a couple days ago. i happened to get really drunk and ended up texting a guy i used to get with back in summer although we never hooked up asking him if there was an after party that he knew of by texting him “after?” on instagram. just because me and my friends have known him for a while that’s mainly why i did but i almost feel like i had the intention of doing that because we saw him at the club we went to that night. he then responded saying he thinks this bar near there we go to a lot would have a good amount of people so i tell him we’re coming. then he texted me asking if i had a boyfriend the next day. i never responded and deleted the message and unfollowed him then found out a couple days later he said he felt bad for my boyfriend because he thought it was a little weird. i just want someones opinion on it because i feel like a horrible person and almost feel like i betrayed my bf even though i would never hurt him like that. i love him so much that i even regret doing that small act of weirdness even though i didn’t see it like that but i do see how that’s odd of me.