I’m in a situation where I know something is bad for me, and Ik it will harm me, but I keep doing it again and again. I realise it at the same time I’m doing it. Ik my life will be ruined if I stay stuck there, but at the end of the day, I still do the same thing and go back to it. I’m 19 right now. Should I see a psychiatrist? I can’t go alone..are there any online therapy options, or what can I do?
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I have had a bad experience in my clg life bcz of some toxic classmates and friend groups. Bullying seems to be becoming normal in this generation day by day...im so soft hearted and too much emotional person.. But for some people like me I cannot tolerate bullying. I sometimes feel insecure when I'm around my clg groups.
I had some toxic friends who always bullied each other about many things, like appearance, relationships, or the way someone behaves.idk why Everyone seems to take these things as normal, but I can't..
Bcz of this, I always have fear in my mind if I say something, they will judge me or bully me. For this reason, I often stay away from group friendships and prefer being alone.
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Sometimes I think this word harms women’s natural beauty. I mean, it doesn’t always, but some people use it to judge or trigger others. A “baddie” should mean confidence, self-respect, and so on. But many people have turned this word into a very narrow beauty standard. I saw some people they think you need to have a slim body, a sharp jawline, or a curvy waist, and that you shouldn’t have belly fat, which is actually natural. They believe you need to go to the gym, and if you don’t have this type of body, you can’t be beautiful in this generation.
Everyone wants a “baddie,” and they don’t accept natural beauty. So what is the actual meaning of this word? What do you guys think about it?
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I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. Last year, I found out that he had been cheating on me for the past two years with his ex. . I love him so much and for some reason i can't leave him..its hard for me it gives me trauma..The love he gave to his ex and the feelings he had for her.. he has never shown those to me. Still, I want him to change. I want him to love me the way he loved his ex.
A few months ago, I saw that he had saved his ex’s number under a different name on his phone. I also found multiple fake accounts on his Instagram, but he never admits anything. I feel like he still stalks his ex and is still in love with her. The kind of love I want from him, I still haven’t received the same love he gave to his ex. He still doesn’t treat me the way he treated her. He gave her full “princess treatment” even while he was in a relationship with me, but with me, he behaves worse..
His ex is kind of an influencer on Instagram and makes dance videos on TikTok. My boyfriend used to tell me he didn’t like those things, and he was very possessive even about me posting simple stories. But he loved her, while he always tries to control me.
It has been about 7–8 months since we patched things up after his cheating, but I still can’t forget the trauma. Everything still comes back to my mind, and I cry a lot. I am constantly stalking that girl, and I feel very insecure about myself, wondering what I lack. Checking her profile daily has become a bad habit. I cry a lot after seeing her pictures.
How can I move on from this? How can I forget this trauma? And how can I make my boyfriend happy so that he will love me? Im so introvert and I dont have any friends..all I have is only him..im literally addicted to him:) My board exam is coming, but I still can’t focus on my studies because of all this. Please give me some advice so I can get out of this situation.