I’m in my mid-teens and she’s a year older. I met her last Saturday while I was DJing at a party. We clicked pretty fast and I got her Snapchat at the end of the night. She even walked me home afterwards.
The next day (less than 24 hours after meeting) we kissed. A friend kind of helped set it up because it felt like we both liked each other. Since then we’ve seen each other for about 3 more days.
During that time she told me about her past relationships (she said she used to date women and has had several exes). I also noticed she often spends time with different guys and relies on one specific guy who drives her around sometimes.
The situation that made me feel weird was that we were actually outside together one day, and she got a call from that same guy saying he was "coming for her" which i wasn't informed of at all, she didn't tell me about going out with other Guys, or any people at all actually. We had plans for us two only. She then left with him shortly after. Later I saw she posted stories of him buying her food, and she acted completely normal about it.
We never officially agreed to be in a relationship, but some of her friends (and even her parents) kind of assume we are “together.”
Now I’m confused because I don’t really feel comfortable continuing this romantically. I like her, but it all moved very fast and I don’t think it’s right for me.
My problem is:
I don’t want to ghost her or be disrespectful
I don’t want to lead her on
But I also feel awkward because we live very close (like 1 minute apart) and I’ll see her often
And I’m worried about how it will look to her friends/family if I step back now
What’s the best way to end this respectfully without making it messy or without me looking like an A-hole?...