u/Corridean24

Hey everyone! I hate even posting something like this. I’m a 46 year old lesbian who is married. I have 2 adopted kids with my ex but I’m remarried with my current wife.
Now my dilemma is this….I’m a Virgo, and don’t exactly love the typical small talk stuff and meeting new people or new friends. I’ve pretty much always been this way. As I’ve gotten older it helps but …yeah. My wife said to me today that a person with no friends is a red flag. I definitely understand what she is saying but it’s always been hard for me to socialize and befriend people. I love questions and deep conversations about literally anything but the initial small talk is hard for me. I can write for days to anyone but the talking part is hard. Let me also say my wife is a Libra, a social butterfly. I know…complete opposite as Virgo but it works for us.
Am I the only Virgo has trouble with this? What have you done to help out Virgo introvert nature?
Is there groups for us? 🤦🏽‍♀️ for who who trouble with this?
I’m a well rounded Virgo, I love books, writing, movies, travel is a big one, family, love, poetry, nature, hiking. I’m a pretty open person. I feel so hopeless sometimes because I’m not a social person like my libra partner. Help please! 😬😬😬
I should probably mention, I’m 45 minutes south of LA without traffic!