Does it get any better? I’m a young guy, set to be 21 in a couple months. I go to an ivy league engineering college, I like to think that people enjoy being around me. I’m serious, have plans for the future, and want to settle down/ have a family one day more than anything. My life up until how has been full of strife, and I really just want something calm.
But I’m a trans man, and my partner of two and a half years just told me that he doesn’t think he could ever have kids with me the way I want (I want to carry myself) and broke things off with me. For context he was a cis gay guy who had never been with or wanted to be with women.
Now when I look around I just can’t see how anything can get better. I can’t fix being trans, and I can’t take the thought of giving up on having my own family. I know I’m young and this probably seems kind of stupid but I don’t have any other family or parents
I was hoping that someone older than me might have some advice. Does it get better? Will there ever be someone out there that wants a family with a guy like me.
Edit*** just for clarification since a couple people have said it. I know I’m young to be having kids, I promise I’m not and was not planning on having them for many more years. A family is just something that’s really important to me in a long term partnership