u/CorgiPatronus14

I’m looking to write a book for and about fellow ACODs. I have some personal things I’d like to know if I’m alone with, and thanks in advance.

—I feel like I’m the only one hurt by it because I don’t personally know many ACODs, and the ones I do know seem fine.

—I feel like I was expected to just be okay since I was a developed adult.

—I question my childhood memories because now I can’t help but wonder if my parents were miserable then as well. Was it a lie?

—My siblings are fine, so I should be fine. but I’m not.

— My parents make terrible comments about each other, and I feel like I can’t speak up about how that makes me feel

those are off the top of my head. Are those feelings anybody else has?

cheers, and thanks