Has an AP or pAP ever given you the ick when things were going so well? I've only been seeing AP for a month, was really enjoying talking and getting to know him. Went on a couple coffee dates that were amazing. He is a joy to be around, one of those people with good energy, you just feel good in their company.
Anyway, we were messaging recently, he was sending me random pics throughout the day, love when men share regular life pics....
One was him hard at work. And then another of the backseat of his van, suggesting we do bad things on it. This just turned me off so badly, the idea of car sex with him. He then said I should visit his work sometime (he runs his own business) which helloooooo Opsec. I shut it down, told him the only place I like to have sex is on a comfy bed.
Just trying to process my feelings. I feel a little bad for shutting him down, but I am just not someone that rushes into sex. Especially bad car sex. Feel a little icky when I think about him now. Should I keep seeing him? The last date we had, I was on cloud 9 afterwards. I honestly can't see myself ever wanting to sleep with him now.