I and my gf 26f have been dating for over 2.5 years. We have both had our fare share of using adult websites to get off before and during the beginning of our relationship when we were not around eachother. As a bit of context my girlfriend has had an I pad she has used to study and watch movies and stuff on. She has never really hid what was on it from me before.
Recently she has told me that she hasn’t been able to find it and that she thinks that it was left at my house(this was over a month ago). I have looked everywhere for this iPad but have not been able to find it at my house or hers ( when I visit there). When I mention to her about finding it because I know she likes to watch movies she kind of shrugs off looking for it like it’s not a big deal. I have tried to ask her to look for it in find my iPhone but she still keeps putting it of. In my eyes her actions around it have been very suspicious considering how much she used to use the iPad.
I also have concerns because I have recently seen on TikTok a lot of girls using their iPads to do things and cheat on their SO’s with out them knowing.
Did she find the iPad? Is she using it to look at stuff we agreed not to look at (like NSFW) stuff? Is she using to to message other guys behind my back?
I don’t know what to do please let me know how to bring it up with out accusing her of anything because I want to give her the benefit of the doubt.