First off, I don’t need to hear people say u guys didn’t talk about this before u got married because we did. we both knew we wanted kids but not right away. (Apparently we had different ideas on what “right away means”).
we got engaged 3 years ago, bought a house, & got married relatively quick. we went on honeymoon & I brought up trying at our one year anniversary . he quickly turned that down. A few months pass & we had 2 other trips planned that year. one in the summer and one in the winter. before our summer trip I said should we try and he spun it on me and said you’d rly want to be pregnant for Italy? (our winter trip) I said I guess not. in my head Ignore it and think well if he wants a baby soon then Italy will be the right time To try. nope I was wrong, now we’re approaching our 2 nd wedding anniversary & I feel defeated. any one else go through this?