u/Cool-Leading-8191

Hello there! Name is Kara. Hoping to find a friend. Strictly platonic, I’m a dog mom. Hobbies include playing videos games (mainly fortnite) listening to music (all kinds) going to concerts, traveling (just got back from Japan.) watching tv (a lot of reality trash tv, anime and Kdramas). Puzzles, painting and plants.

I would probably consider myself an introverted extrovert. I’m shy and like my space but then I also like going out and doing different things.

Anyway, I hope to make a friend who doesn’t ghost me and values friendships.

So, we’ve been friends for two years. We used to do stuff every weekend and recently she got a boyfriend like 3 months ago and I’m becoming less and less of a priority to her. She hangs out with her boyfriend over me and maybe I’m being delusional and over dramatic but I’m getting hurt. I make plans with her and she just cancels like all the time. Is it me? It makes me sad cuz I don’t have alot of friends. I’m looking for more but it’s so hard and i understand life happens. I want to say something but I just hold it in, in hopes that she’ll hang out with me again.

She’s planning a trip to Korea because her boyfriend will be stationed there and I told her I want to go. But as time goes on I feel like I’m being cut out of the plans and she’s not giving me and dates.

I’ve been distancing myself because I’m scared of getting hurt and I feel like she’s too busy with her boyfriend.

I need help am I being over dramatic? should I talk with her?