Dating and social media 40F and 40M
I need some perspective:
Him (40M) dating me (40F) for 6 months: healthy relationship, he does what he says he will do, always follows through, goes out of his way to see me even if it's a major inconvenience. Always listens, affectionate, reliable. Introduced me to his friends and teenage daughter. Went on a trip together. All the good signs. Progressing in healthy way.
But - he's active on Instagram, posts pics of family but nothing of us together yet. I have made two posts so far since we started dating of fun things we did together/on our trips. He has added a story of me but doesn't save it (i.e. went to a hockey game but saved a story of the game and not the one of the two of us).
I feel insecure about this. I feel like there is some part of me that thinks either he is leaving his options open online, or he isn't in the same place in our relationship as me. It's something that I know divides people (giving it too much weight) but I have heard stories of guys wanting to appear single online.
At what point does it become a red flag?