u/Cookieteer8

Hello! I'm at that part of adulthood where i a do not have a lot of friends left and i would like to make more! But i've always been kind of a shut in. Im looking for some kind of consistent group activity/place that i could go to around once a week to meet some people! I'm really into films so i was trying to figure out some kind of weekly cineclub but i cant find much info about any. I'm not really into anything sports, i would rather exercise at home but other than that, hit me with any recommendation! I would also like to know community based places like maybe more casual queer establishments, themed bars or something like that. Thanks!

Hello :) I am a 29 year old guy from Montreal, Canada looking for someone to share my life with.

About me:

My first language is french but i've used english more since i was 12. I am 183cm, 105kg white dude with brown curly hair ,hazel eyes and a bit of a gut. I love video games, especially anything co-op or that i can do with other people. I'd love to do some slay the spire 2 runs together, start a bg3 campaign or show each other our various farms and towns we made in comfy games. I've watched some anime and read some manga but im not a die hard fan. Same with tv shows but i'm always down for watching or playing anything if its with someone i enjoy the company of, i know a lot of people say this but i am extremely laid back about what activity i am doing if its with the right company. I am however a huge film guy! I love so good its bad movies, weird over the top stuff, niche foreign movies, horror, the list goes on. I could just as easily laugh at how awfully filmed birdemics is together as i could explain in excruciating detail why i think horror movies are one of the best medium to learn about other countries cultures. I also enjoy reading quite a bit (Especially miserable stuff for some reason. The more a story makes me feel utterly sad , the more i like it). Lastly, i looooove animals so much. I've had a ton of different pets, i've fostered sick cats, i've volunteered in animal shelters and i just love interacting with animals in general so much.

I Think my qualities that i value most are my kindness, understanding, emotional intelligence and my general compassion and empathy. I'm a big believer in kindness being the most important thing someone can provide. I'm always looking to improve myself to make my little community even better. If you are someone who has worries about their mental health or who struggles with socializing or who is part of a community thats ostracized anything like that, please dont worry about being judged or treated any sort of negatively because of it when it comes to me. I've gone through too much in life and i've talked to too many people who have gone through hell to not have a mountain of empathy to offer.

I also am a romantic and love anything tender in a relationship. The forehead kisses, the cuddling, the gentle touches, etc.

As far as NSFW stuff goes, i'm very adaptive and open. I love my partner being satisfied above all else which has made perfectly okay with dating people who are completely asexual and people who are the complete opposite.

What im looking for: I'm looking for someone Femme presenting. Any gender, cis or trans, non binary, whatever else doesnt matter to me as long as you are not masculine. Someone who values kindness, communication and compassion. I believe that things like arguing and passive aggressiveness is pointless in relationship and that communicating can solve most things so i'd like someone who thinks alike but i also understand that mental health can make that difficult for some. As long as you try, i am very understanding and patient. Someone who wants to be in a tender relationship where we love eachother strongly. I get attached very strongly and i like to show it. I like to talk about how much i love someone, constantly tell them they make my day brigther and do things for them so if that sounds overwhelming or unpleaseant we would not be a good match. I would like someone who either has shared interests and would like to do them together or is at least interested in learning about them and doing parallel play type of hang out.

I think that sums it up! I look forward to hearing about you! Don't be shy :)