u/CookiCrush1n404

Feeling the way I feel isn’t practical for my life anymore. In my family if Im not being the best masculine figure is having a bad effect on me and others around me.

I can’t help but think about the fact that my inactions have affected the quality of my relationships and responsibilities. I’ve found myself in the position of having to be a driving force for my immediate family if I don’t pick myself up out of my own selfish misery……At this point in my life I Im just not sure if what I want is good enough for a well and productive life.

Going forward with a higher expectation of myself is what makes the most sense for my own personal growth and benefit for my family.. I thought I could be more happy with being a softer more feminine person, but what’s dragging me down is my complacency and need to be taken care of…I can’t no longer think that way.. sometimes it’s needed for a person to take the initiative and make something better of themselves. I hope to get there someday. Starting from now I’ll be the best option for my future.

Please wish me luck.

I’ve been lurking on this Reddit for a couple of months, and I’ve been in need of some advice for hair styles.

I’ve been growing up my hair for about over a year and feel like styling it more intentionally instead of just letting it fall to my shoulders. I’ve learned how to take care of my hair in regards of shampooing and conditioning along with taking necessary, vitamin. But I have no solid idea of how to style it. I could ask my mom, but I feel like it would raise too many questions of my identity. So if you guys have any suggestions of how I can style it, please help me out.

I’ve been trying to gain my confidence into looking more cute, but scared of what others may think especially my immediate family. Is there any way I can get into this without raising too many suspicions?