I feel like it's a pretty common stereotype that ENFJ's are humanitarians and empathetic. Anyone else try to understand where certain "bad" behavior could be coming from a bad headspace and try to be more considerate or understanding?
As someone who struggles with depression, anxiety, and other chronic mental health issues, I know life isn't all sunshine and rainbows. Obviously, there are a lot of bad people in the world, and not all can be trusted.
But if someone may have done something that could be slightly hurtful, if I feel that I can see where they're coming from, I'm willing to forgive them (to an extent!). If I feel that someone (regardless of the relationship dynamic) is willing to share their struggles or their perspective, it becomes more understandable as to how that could have happened.
I've VERY selective who I let in my life and who I spend my time with, but if someone knows me, even just on a surface level, my philosophy is that is is safe to let your guard down a little if your gut reaction is that you can trust them. I know that perspective could be seen as naive and silly, but within reason, I think it's harmless!
Thoughts please and thank you ^^