u/ConvOverthinker

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You look at IITs, top ranks, good jobs, successful people… and somewhere inside, you want that life too.
But the moment you dream bigger than your current reality, self doubt enters:

  • “Maybe I’m not capable.”
  • “Maybe people like me don’t reach there.”
  • “Maybe I’m aiming too high.”

Let me give you the same motivation that I received in 2013, my mentor showed me a scene from Bhaag Milkha Bhaag that stayed with me for years.

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Milkha Singh sees elite athletes wearing the India blazer. The respect, pride, and identity attached to it hits him deeply. For a moment, he tries wearing one of those blazers — not because he wants to steal it, but because somewhere inside, he wants to feel what it’s like to become someone important.

But then reality hits hard.

People insult him.
Call him a thief.
Humiliate him for even thinking he belongs there.

And honestly, many people experience this exact feeling in life.

Then comes the most powerful part of the scene.

The coach stops everyone and says:

“India ka coat chori karke nahi milta… kamana padta hai.
Mehnat karni padti hai.
Uske layak banna padta hai.”

And then he looks at Milkha Singh and says:

“Harayega Sher Singh Rana ko?
Pata hai kaise daudta hai woh?
Goli ki tarah jaata hai… hawa ki tarah daudta hai woh.
Hai dum tere mein?”

What makes this dialogue powerful is not just the challenge.

Sher Singh Rana represents every intimidating thing in life:

  • competition
  • fear
  • self doubt
  • people who seem far ahead of you

And when the coach says:
“Goli ki tarah daudta hai woh…”

He is reminding Milkha how difficult the challenge really is.

But after hearing all this, Milkha still replies:

“Han… main haraunga.”

That dialogue was never just about running. It was about belief.

It was about whether you have the courage to believe in yourself before the world does.

I think every serious aspirant reaches this phase:

  • when results are not visible
  • confidence starts dropping
  • people around move ahead
  • and overthinking slowly kills action

What I realized later is that growth is silent for a long time.

  • You keep studying.
  • Keep struggling.
  • Keep improving.
  • And nothing seems to change.

But internally, you are becoming stronger.

Years later, when I got my GATE 2016 rank, I realized something it was never one day of motivation that changed my life.

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It was consistency, silent effort and continuing even when nothing exciting was happening

Sometimes the biggest battle is not against competition.

It is against the voice inside your head that says:
“Maybe you are not capable.”

Don’t lose to that voice too early.

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u/ConvOverthinker — 6 days ago
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I heard this dialogue years ago, but I understood it much later.
After my B.Tech, I had an offer from Infosys as a System Engineer. At the same time, I had an above-average GATE 2014 score. Not great, but enough to make me feel I could do better.

Like most middle-class families, my parents wanted me to take the job. And honestly, I was also scared. Leaving a secure job didn’t feel like a smart move at that time. So I joined Infosys on 7th July 2014.

For the first few weeks, everything was fine. Then reality started hitting. Preparing for GATE along with a full-time job was not working for me. I could feel time slipping, especially knowing that PSUs like BARC, IOCL, HPCL had age limits. That pressure was always there in the back of my mind.

I started getting frustrated. And instead of fixing things, I started blaming my parents. We had a lot of arguments over phone calls (and back then, those long calls weren’t cheap either ).

One day, my father simply said, “If you feel this strongly, resign and come back. Prepare properly.”

I resigned on 25th September 2014 and came back home. There was relief, but also a different kind of pressure. I was unemployed, my friends were working, and that feeling of being left behind was very real.

I prepared for GATE 2015. I worked hard, but mentally I was still stuck. I kept thinking about those 3–4 months I had “lost” because of the job. Even before the result, I knew PSUs wouldn’t happen.

Rank came out to be 1028. I got IIT Roorkee through a spot round. From outside, it looked fine. But internally, I was still frustrated.

One day, I was just sitting alone on a bench in IIT Roorkee, and I caught myself doing the same thing again — blaming my parents.

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That’s when something clicked.

I realized that blaming was actually making things easier for me. It was an excuse. Whenever I didn’t know how to improve, I would go back to what went wrong.

That day, I didn’t make any big resolution. I just decided to stop thinking that way.

I started focusing on what I could control. Made a simple plan. Stopped overthinking past mistakes.

Slowly, things started improving. I completed my M.Tech with a good CGPA, later secured a 3-digit rank, and today I’m working with Airports Authority of India.

Looking back, quitting Infosys or getting into IIT was not the real turning point.

It was this shift — I stopped blaming and started taking responsibility.

Life didn’t suddenly become perfect after that. There were still doubts, pressure, and confusion. But things started moving.

If you’re preparing right now and feeling stuck, just check one thing honestly — are you focusing on what you can do next, or on what already went wrong?

That one shift helped me more than any strategy ever did.

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u/ConvOverthinker — 13 days ago
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I see this a lot — ‘I’m from tier 3… can I crack GATE?’

Honestly, that’s not the real question.

GATE isn’t about where you studied. It’s about whether you can sit down daily and solve problems when it’s uncomfortable.

Most people don’t fail because they lack resources. They fall into a few common traps:

  • constantly searching for better lectures/resources
  • watching more than practicing
  • delaying PYQs and mocks
  • being inconsistent once things get tough

That’s where preparation actually breaks.

And about your college — it’s not a disadvantage. In many ways, it’s an advantage. You’re already used to figuring things out on your own. That builds a kind of strength people don’t even notice.

I’ve seen people from unknown colleges get top ranks, and people from top institutes struggle. So clearly, the difference is not the tag.

It comes down to three things — confidence, problem solving, and consistency.

There will be days when nothing makes sense, scores drop, and you feel like quitting. That happens to everyone.

The only question is — will you still show up the next day?

If yes, you’re already ahead of most people.

And trust me, that’s what actually matters.

Ending this with a short clip of Katrina Kaif on failure — worth watching.

https://reddit.com/link/1sw1546/video/zdkkr82lohxg1/player

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u/ConvOverthinker — 17 days ago