u/ControversialDebator

Why do Men degrade and insult Women who have sex with them?

You see it in the Language used when having sex. He "banged" ,"Cracked" ,"smashed" ,"blew her brains out" and "re-arranged her guts". Its always an act of humiliation or violence done to a woman that men say.

Sex is often times described as an act DONE to women instead of a mutually enjoyable experience. Its always "I fucked her" instead of "We fucked together".

You see men here hating on women for not having sex with them ,and yet if you go in real life suddenly its the opposite. Where men hate on women FOR having sex with them and say nonsense like "a key that opens many doors is a master key ,yet a lock that gets opened by many keys is a shitty lock." or "she's a hoe and belongs to the streets" And I'm like ok then don't act shocked when no women wants sex including with you.

Why do men view sex as degrading and degrade the women who have sex with them? And why are they surprised that those same women don't wanna have sex with them? Its pretty obvious that if you make fun of someone for doing something with you they won't do it.

Now some might say "Oh I want a woman to have sex with me specifically ,not other guys" yet I even see men say that they "cracked" their GF. And even one guy say that he couldn't take his ex seriously because of what she "let" him do to her. Or how one guy said that he respected his Girlfriend too much to want to do certain sex acts with her. So this argument doesn't make sense.

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u/ControversialDebator — 3 days ago