Hello everyone,
I am a senior in high school. The school year is coming to an end, our school holds a “senior skip day” once a year. My friend group consists of 11 girls, two of which I am closest to. My friend Mia is one of the closest, she recently got in a relationship around a week ago. I support her but I am not necessarily fond of the guy, I’ve known the guy for around seven years but we never became close friends. I am supporting her trough it, but as I said I am acquaintances with the guy, I have no interest in becoming his friend, and out of respect for their relationship I am keeping my distance even more, in short I don’t care much about him I am just happy if she is happy and safe. I’ve been open to inviting him to our hang outs and I have enjoyed it with our friends, but I don’t feel as comfortable with him around, I feel like I can’t enjoy my friend as much because she is going trough that honey moon phase where she is enamored by him. Anyways the big event is coming up on Friday, and our whole friend group want to do something at the lake near my house, I am bringing BBQ, and we will be at my house for a while. She told me that he asked her what she was doing for that Friday, and she asked me if I he could tag along with us, I said that the problem is we would be going to my house, and I am not comfortable having men at my house, and that I want to spend time with them only for that day. She didn’t sound very happy