Im so over this shit right now. Going on 4 years with my gf. Now her daughter has been verbally attacking me the past 2 days just like her mom. I treat her daughter as my own. The only person in my corner is our son. I work full time i pay her bills rent and my bills and the kids. She refuses to work more then 10 hours a week. Every time I ask hey when are you gonna get a 2nd job. I get nothing but excuses. Her new excuse now is when I become a responsible parent and responsible adult she will get a 2nd job. So I said fuck it ill go get another job and then she said no you will not you aren't leaving me these kids. The other day her 11 yo daughter told me im worthless and she doesnt want me here. Then today she said you need to work more we need money. Im like everything is taken care of. She said no when I say we it means me and my mom and my brother not you. This past week I made myself lunch for work. I put it in the fridge and I went to go shower and get ready I go grab it from the fridge and surprise my step daughter is eating it and im like hey thats my lunch for work and she got up threw it away and said that im a loser and why did I leave it in the fridge then. Told her mom like hey she ate my lunch for work. Then she starts to yell at me and told me to stop bullying her daughter. Another incident with my daughter she was eating popcorn and chocolate and playing on my xbox. I said hey when you are done please wipe off my controller so its not sticky and greasy. She screamed at me saying I dont care and threw it on the floor and here comes her mom again stop bullying my daughter. And im like all I asked is her to be respectful and responsible. Those are just a couple incidents the the past couple days with her. Now with the gf she its just non stop berating. She keeps saying I abandoned my 6 year old and im a peice of shit dad. Yells at me because I dont work enough or yells at me she needs money for her credit card bills etc etc. Got our son down for bed tonight and all she did was scream at me and kept shutting off my xbox and kept trying to wake up our son. Then she goes into our room slams the door shut and locks me out and told my son shut up go back to sleep. Like im so fucking over this shit. Also today she put our son on the trampoline and zipped the netting shut and she sat there and doom scrolled while I got balls and a hockey stick and joined my son on the trampoline and played with him. Dinner time she threw food on his tray and went to go doom scroll.
Ive already applied for childcare assistance and im already planning on talking to my job getting switched back to days and imma look around for apartments or something. I cant keep this bullshit up. All I know she is a fucking ungrateful bitch right now. Our son is 2 and he doesnt want anything to do with her which says enough. She plays with him maybe 15 mins maybe a hour at most during the day otherwise she is just doom scrolling and smoking cigarettes. I told her I will take my son and leave because im not having him raised how she raised her daughter being a ungrateful spoiled brat who doesnt do shit but also doom scrolls and cant even get herself ready for school. Im so fucking pised right now. I cant even sleep and I gotta be up in 6 hours to get her daughter ready for school because she rather watch YouTube then go to school.
Edit- I'm not even allowed to play with my son when her daughter is around also. I was playing hockey with my son today outside. She came up took the ball he was hitting back to me and threw it down the street and told me to go fetch it and then they both took my son inside and locked me outside.
Like the gf says everything is my fault. I ruined her life and I dont do enough for her. The list goes on and on and on