Hi all! I’m about to do a photoshoot with my fiancé and i’m looking for buildings like a free parking garage or anything, maybe an apartment complex w rooftop that i somehow don’t need a keycard for?😂 etc. looking for something that ideally you can see some of the square or campus in the background as i think it would make a cool pic at night. Thanks in advance!
Came out to my mom today who has always been accepting and an “ally” of the lgbtq community (or so she said) and i was expecting shock and pushback but not this..
slides 1-5 were how i was expecting it to go and then she turned fully transphobic and fucking insane and yeah… ouch. that one hurt really bad. fucking gutted me having this conversation, it gets worse too but the rest is too private. she insults my current spouse, tries to blame me being trans on her somehow, basically tells me i’m being manipulative for not telling my very christian father until im done with college end of next year because he’s paying for my college currently, when really i just don’t want to ruin the relationship i barely have with him and would also like to not have to drop out because my dad is the only reason im able to go to college. She essentially told me to shave and use female pronouns and try to do a female voice before im comfortable or actually on hrt, and “see how i like it”… etc. The line about me being trans being almost worse than me fucking dying or being dismembered? holy fuckin shit. And then she has the audacity to say she believes in trans people’s right to transition, just not me god forbid it’s me.
i could go on.. but i can’t. i’m so fucking drained. i’m so tired…. of my two parents i thought she’d accept me but now im lowkey thinking my fucking christian father who still tells me to pray about my worries would have a better reaction ngl. what the fuck😭 i think after this ive lost every ounce of respect for her. i tried so hard to be patient and respectful and i was to the end of the convo (where it gets too personal to share) just as i am in these screenshots yet here we are, im just a “pamphlet” like no shit i’m trying to INFORM YOU. if i sounded like a pamphlet then she sounds like an anti trans maga pamphlet cause wtf.
sorry that’s all, thanks for coming to my trans talk (get it?)
edit: i live 4.5 hours from her and with my fiancé(who loves and supports me) in an apartment