20F. I don’t know about y’all, but I’m finding it very hard to find a man in my age range, 20-25. Everyone is 28+ and it’s a little frustrating sometimes, I’ll be scrolling the posts for hours and the only people my age are the ladies 😭
TL:DR; anyone have any luck here for younger dates? Any recommendations for apps or sites?
Hey y’all, I’ve been listening to sermons on YouTube for a hot minute now.
I wanted to share!
Time Of Grace - Pastor Mike
Pastor Mike talks about all the “taboo” topics often not discussed in church - mental health, abuse, recovery, why do things happen, etc.
And wow, my faith has continued to strengthen.
20F - Hey y’all, I came from the Christian dating subreddit. Can I just say, it’s really tough out here lol.
I’ve posted a profile a few times, it got insane backlash, which shocked me.
Why?
Because I don’t want to have children.
(If you have nothing nice to say, please keep it to yourself okay. I’ve already been harassed and called a sinner.)
I believe what God is calling me to do in life is to help save children that are already here, not create my own. I want to advocate for and support kids in a professional sense.
This is not a “I just don’t wanna because I’m lazy,” quite frankly, I’ve been dealing with mental illness my entire life. Trust me, if I was capable of handling kids, I would have them.
Anyway, so no kids is a dealbreaker for me. It’s been really difficult because so many great Christian men obviously wanna be dads.
Idk I feel so lost. Online and in person, I just don’t mesh. I’m literally starting to doubt if I’m supposed to have a relationship 😭
Edit: I also think a problem I have is that I’m a Canadian, and all the guys around here are farmer boys who want a stay at home wife.. (I grew up on a farm, I’ve had enough of that lolll, and I want to have a career. I know what I want to do.)
TL;DR; anyone else struggling with the whole dating thing.