u/Consistent-Sun-9566

So long story short I am 23 ive been on birthday pills for like 6 years now..? Idk if thats good honestly about 6

Months ago i had bad acne went on accutane then my doc switched my BC pills to a different one. When i was on the new ones my period started a week before i began my sugar pills which idk why i didnt act sooner and change them. But my last period was March 23-April 21… my cramps were really bad in the beginning (ive never had cramps before) then towards the middle i passed a blood clot the size of 2 toonies side by side. I finally went to the doctor April 21 she said it was my pills causing irregular periods and what not, she switched me to

Mirvala but said to finish my current pack then start the new ones, she also mentioned i shouldn’t be getting my period this cycle since i bled a whole month last cycle.. boy was she wrong, got my period then 2 days ago i was sitting doing my nails and the blood just started gushing out felt like i was pissing my self… went to check holy shit my pad was soaked within 2 minutes never happened before either, then as i was sitting a blood clot fell out bigger than last cycle… wanted to see if anyone else experienced this before and if so what was it…

I 23f and My boyfriend 23m have been together for 5 years, and I can probably count on 2 hands how many times he has gone down on me.

About 1–2 years ago, I got so frustrated that I told him his technique wasn’t great. Looking back, maybe that hurt his feelings. But at the same time, it feels unfair because I always make sure he finished which doesnt take long..

Lately I haven’t really been as giving as I used to be because honestly… why should I keep putting in effort when it doesn’t feel reciprocated?

Recently he said he wanted some, and I said, “When was the last time youve gone down on me” He responded with, “Well, you’ve been bleeding the last month,” which is true because my new birth control messed up my cycle.

But I told him he can’t really use that as an excuse because even when I’m not bleeding, he still doesn’t do it.

After that he started huffing and puffing, and I just rolled over and went to bed.

Am I overreacting?

Edit: sometimes it makes me wonder if hes still into me? Or maybe hes closeted..? But like its also been 5 years idk sometimes i spiral🥴🥴