my husband (31M) and i (25F) got married in 2022 and we have one son together. we were very happy until recently,
my husband wasn’t particularly affectionate but he used to try and the first 2 years were pretty great but i’ve always told him to be more affectionate (because my love language is physical touch) but he just doesn’t try. even though i told him sooo many times and whenever i get upset he just says that im ungrateful and that this is how he is. and its not that im not affectionate towards him, i am and obviously i want that in return. i also understand that he has a very difficult job that really drains him mentally and physically but i just want to feel like im wanted.
how do i get him to be more affectionate? any advice will do pleasee