I’m M26 and 23F we have been together for 6 months. I genuinely like her a lot, both her personality and how she looks. But there’s something that’s been bothering me and I can’t stop thinking about it.
The issue is that we don’t have much sex, and she has not much experience. With my past relationships I always felt a strong physical desire for my partners, but with her it feels different. I’m almost always the one who has to initiate, and if I don’t, nothing happens. It makes me feel like she doesn’t really need or want it as much as I do.
I’m not sure if this is something that can improve over time as she gets more comfortable and experienced, or if it’s just a fundamental incompatibility between us.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? Did things get better, or did the difference in libido end up being a dealbreaker? I really don’t want to throw away a good relationship, but I’m starting to have serious doubts.