Advice needed! Am I a bitter ex?
My ex and me have 2 children. He has them both at the weekends. We both started dating new people and previously discussed them meeting new partners etc. He became aggressive and shouting at me in front of the children about hearing about my new partner from the children. So I have banned him from entering my house and we are not civil anymore. Sunday he dropped the kids off and the eldest 8 years old was very grumpy and tired and quiet. Slowly Monday she explained her dad took them at the weekend to sleep at new gf house in a different city. Here's why I feel anxious and angry. I feel he should he have told me/ asked permission or given me aheads up. Also an uber there and back must of cost a fortune but he always tells me he has no money to buy pj's or socks etc for the children at his house. My new bf are taking it slow. We've been together a few months and he's only met my kids once for a few hours. They have been together a few weeks and his Facebook says hes still single. I just want to protect my kids. Advice please 🙏