u/ConservativeChinese

[千里之行始于足下] "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." - Lao Tzu

Hi, you can call me Kita for now until we get to know each other better. I'm in the U.S. Army Reserve for a few more years and I'm working on my B.S. in C.S. potentially a M.S. in Data Science. Currently I'm working odd jobs since I just got off a deployment and killing time before I need to report back to my unit and the fall semester starting. I don't do dating apps and haven't been in a relationship before, I'm kind of throwing this out there into the void that is this subreddit. I'd prefer if you were in NYC or close by so we could meet in person in the future but I am open to traveling/LDR within the US, Canada or China/Japan/Korea depending on finance.

To be frank, I'm a bit pessimistic but I do believe in working towards the light as the quote I put says. At the end of the day, everyone is trying their best to survive in this world and having someone to come back to and be with is certainly helpful. I'll complain and vent- sometimes event too much but I'll get the work done as best I can. I'm a bit busy with work and tend to sleep/wake early but I'll definitely respond if we click- might send a reel or two in the future. Instagram, Discord and TikTok are my main social media aside from WeChat and XHS, if we click we can link up on that as well.

About Me:

• 6'0' | 183 cm
• 175-185 lb | 79-84 kg not jacked but not fat, just your standard build
• American Born Chinese (100% Chinese)
• Speaks English, Chinese | Learning Japanese/Korean when I have time
• Virgin
• No license, look I'm not a great driver but I'm trying.
• Right Leaning/Conservative (as my name state) but not a Trump supporter
• Not religious but grounded in the bible, have traditional values. Filial Piety is important to me, I often give a portion of my finances to them for now.
• Wants bio kids- looking at 3 maybe more or less depending
• Logic based- will try to solve your problems before I sit with you unless you tell me explicitly or I just don't know.
• Dry unfiltered humor (dark humor from time to time)
• League of legends is my main game (been a T1 fan since '15 and playing the game since then), Val TFT is secondary (both since beta/release but not as much), I used to play gacha (f2p on HSR，BD2, ZZZ, SW, Arknights, Asnia Trigger, AL, BA, GF2, Etheria, HI3, etc. not a lore reader though) but I've been too busy to maintain them. CoC is my main mobile game.
• Anime Enjoyer, love a good old rom com or Isekai (either action adventure op mc or sol op mc. Fav: My dress up darling(love Marin Kitagawa), Bunny Girl Senpai, The quintessential Quintuplets, Reincarnated as a Slime, By the Grace of the Gods. K/C/J drama watcher from time to time.
• Manhwa/ga/hua Ln/Wn reader from time to time, especially for anime that I enjoyed but haven't been adapted yet.
• TWICE Supremacy, Kpop, Jpop, Cpop enjoyer- love songs too.

Looking for

• 18-21
• 5'5" or shorter preferred, shorter than me absolute
• fit or standard build, not overwhelmingly fat
• Chinese, Japanese, Korean or Vietnamese
• Virgin (absolute)
• Center/Right leaning
• Doesn't have to be religious as long as our values for life, kids and growth match
• Want bio kids (absolute) the number can vary
• Dry unfiltered humor (don't need to be dark but needs to be able to accept/not get offended by the world)
• Gamer :) If you get into league or at least have interest in it that would be great but I'm down to play games together- someone that understands what gaming does.
• Cosplayer would be great but interest in anime is wonderful.

Here's some songs that I've been reviving:

Take a hint : Nightcore https://youtu.be/cyW2ajAVyfA?si=vY6oCI4L7YDDc-Xp

It's not like I like you : Static-P https://youtu.be/tOzOD-82mW0?si=0pvqXRhNvvicW9gA

再见 : 张震岳 https://youtu.be/_VCU94B_Oig?si=vn49yYFt8zg_4Sb6

After all that yap, if you meet my absolutes and some of the others and I match your criteria, shoot me a message. Introduce yourself, you can just bullet point what you got if that's easier. Send some songs you've been listening to maybe we'll match in music taste.