This is bit long, so brace yourselves:
I am now 30. I only lost my virginity last year when I just turned 29 and it was to a woman (Sarah) who cheated on me all the time. I pretended to be a man with no self-respect who’d put up with it, but the real truth was that I intended on leaving her in like a year after I collected experience from her. This way: I won’t be an inexperienced loser for my next woman. Sarah wasn’t originally meant to be someone I used to gain sexual experience, but she became that when she first cheated, not even a week in our relationship.
I dumped her on April 4 and my female friend (Laura) asked why. I said it’s because Sarah was cheating on me. Laura said she was sorry to hear that. Then I said “Don’t be. I always knew she was, so I got the experience I needed from Sarah. Her part in this is done.”
Laura went off about how what I did was still wrong despite the fact that Sarah also wronged me. She is even wondering if she can still be friends with me. I am trying to say “this wasn’t manipulative, it was just a disaster that I had to make the most of“. Laura won’t stop believing I manipulated Sarah, so it does make me wonder if I’m TA if I keep trying to prove my point if she’s unable to understand why I did this.
Keep in mind that Laura hates Sarah for what she did to me, she thinks Sarah’s worse than me, they aren’t best friends at all.