Gave it back today and i feel good
I was scared of my nmom my whole life, still am. I had to walk on eggshells every minute. I had to be very careful about the words i choose, the topics i speak, my expressions my body language everything just to avoid tantrums and aggressive environment. She kept insulting my husband with indirect comments for a while now and i kept bearing it because i am very scared of her and want to avoid fights. I could no longer take it anymore and bursted out at her today, i told her not to say one more word about my husband and called out all her tactics. I have suffered a lot because of her behaviour and today I feel good for standing up for myself and my husband.