She bought me congratulations flowers, then woke me up the next morning to break up with me. Now she's texting my mum but not me. What do I do?
we were together for two and half years and lived together in her place. She woke me up in bed a week ago, the day after my final college exam saying we needed to talk. The night before she went out and bought me congratulations flowers. Two weeks before she was talking to me about adopting a cat.
There were three days of flip flopping before she finally ended it.
I went to go and stay with family the night she did, and left a note behind for her. It was painful and raw, but now I just feel angry.
I texted her to say I’m open to a conversation in the future but need time. She’s done this before and gone back on it. Honestly, it was me trying to get some semblance of control. She replied saying she had seen my messages and was planning a response.
That was 3 days ago now, and still nothing. She has found the time to text our mutual friends and even a pretty comprehensive message to my mother which included her asking for me to move out my stuff earlier because she will be on a work trip then. I think in her mind she was doing me a favour so i don’t have to see her, but it’s all just so inconsiderate.
I *want* to send her a text telling her how angry i am now, that her handling of this has made me lose respect for her. But i don’t want to kiss goodbye to any shred of dignity i may have left. I want to know what she has to say, but i also don’t care. It feels all just too little too late - my life has already been uprooted in a week with no explanation.
What would you do? block, angry text, or wait it out?