I agreed to go the strip club and ended upset
I(F25) and him (M23), we had made plans to go the strip club with our close friends. I was only down because I was curious to see what it’s like in a strip club and because my bestie wanted to go. Our friends have gone multiple times and it was mine and my husband’s first time. I had made it clear to him that I didn’t want him to have any lap dances but he can go through money at the girlies on stage cause that was all I wanted to do only. Well two girls started lap dancing on our friends after being there for like 30min of just vibing and looking around. One of the girls mid lap dance asked me and my man if we wanted one. I was very firm on not wanting us to get one. The girl kept insisting and my man kept asking what I thought and if it would be ok. After multiple times of them asking, I told him “whatever you think, if you want it that bad get one” I was hoping he would see how un-comfy I was and just decline… well he didn’t. I watched how she got on him and then grabbed his hands and placed them on her chest. I tried to be cool and not let it ruin the vibe since it’s was my besties b-day. Then I noticed he was having way to much of a good time while having that lap dance. She then got in his face almost looked like she was going in for a kiss and asked who I was he replied “that’s my wife” she still proceeded to dance and get super close in his face. And then asked him if I was the jelly type. I overheard and looked at my friend and told her I was uncomfortable and I need to get out before I have a melt down in front of everyone. I asked my man to stop and he did and followed me outside. We ended the strip club there. Our friends were super understanding and were making me feel valid for my feelings. My mans best friend even told him he went to far. Anyways am I overreacting or do I just need to build a bridge and get over it or am I valid for how I ended up feeling? I’m still super upset and see my husband differently now:(