Parents using being trans for punishment
It's so annoying. I'm 15 trans man and almost fully diagnosed and almost going on t. whenever I do something wrong they threaten to stop my transition and go back to deadnaming and missgendering me (while saying that they say my deadname, like "you better stop doing that or we will start calling you (deadname) again." "you'll be (deadname) to me again") and I will be able to transition when I'm 18.
I just wish they'd threaten to take my phone for a month or something...
Edit:
The most recent situations that this happened were:
my father was trying to test me in math and I told him I'm not good with math when I can't see the question and he started raising his voice so I told him to leave me alone because I don't want to take this stupid test (I don't know got to translate it well, I said "Dobra, zostaw mnie, nie chce robić tego głupiego testu") and he started yelling and telling me I'm a whipster (I think that's how to say it) and a brat and I should go to my room immediately (in a vulgar way) so then I told him that he's not acting normally to what he responded that if I talk to him like that again I'll not be going to the hospital to get me tested before going on testosterone.
The day after that my mother told me to get groceries from downstairs so I went there leaving the door open to be able to just walk back in with the groceries, I got them and it was hard to even lift them up, but I carried them up the stairs and halfway through I heard the door close. I knocked on it a few times and my arms started hurting, the my mother opened the door and I asked "what genius closed that door" In a loose, playful tone (It would've been taken as a joke in most of the previous interactions I had with them so I figured that it wouldn't be an issue for me to say that) and they told me to think about what I'm saying and got very angry, I asked them what's wrong with them lately and they only escalated the conflict telling me that im not going anywhere on 4th May (the day I was supposed to go get everything checked) I snorted, which was really more of a sudden exhale of helplessness, and my mother started yelling that I'm disrespectful and I'm laughing as soon as she leaves the room and I must apologise to her.
As I said, usually they are just kind and accepting but moments like this make me question everything I know about them...