u/Connect_Committee504

I started talking to and dating this girl for about a month now and things have been great between us. The first time we had sex felt great and definitely special but there was one thing…. My gf pretty much said I suck at sex. Idk if it’s a stamina thing or size thing but she says I’m very very good at eating her out and fingering her, I even made her orgasm a couple times from just fingering her, but I feel very insecure now about putting my penis in her. I tried talking to her about what I can do better and what she likes the most and pretty much just said to be more rough. Last night we had sex and I was doing everything she wanted, pulling her hair, hand on her throat, slapping her ass while pumping etc. while riding me i look up to see her emotionally empty face… and it just made me get soft right away. I asked her after why it looked like she wasent enjoying it and her respond was “I was too focused on riding u” which I find that hard to believe. Now all I wanna do is just eat her out and play with her pussy until she gets off bc that’s all I know that makes her feel good and just feel so insecure about wanting to actually fuck her, I’m lost am I the problem?